tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1351946439375532570.post3268537928589099410..comments2023-07-16T03:57:18.206-05:00Comments on Empty Vessel: FISH resultsUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1351946439375532570.post-62546842551921433142009-01-15T21:13:00.000-06:002009-01-15T21:13:00.000-06:00Linda- I am so sorry for all that you have been th...Linda- I am so sorry for all that you have been through. I really believe that God helped humans develop IF/IVF treatments so that we can cotinue to procreate, just as He desires. I really don't think that you will go to Hell. IF is a medical condition and IVF is treatment for a medical condition. Hang in there sweetie!<BR/>KrisKrishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09916441645018957933noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1351946439375532570.post-61687642584881704212009-01-15T14:47:00.000-06:002009-01-15T14:47:00.000-06:00Linda - I'm a little late to chime in but I wanted...Linda - I'm a little late to chime in but I wanted to tell you that I'm so sorry for everything too. It's not fair and you've been through so much and if successful IVF outcomes were based on level of pain endured, you would definitely have your baby by now. Hang in there and I am thinking about you. NGHA! BIG VIRTUAL HUG sent your way.kayjayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18256420678906545238noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1351946439375532570.post-41796803440371781782009-01-15T12:17:00.000-06:002009-01-15T12:17:00.000-06:00Awww, ladies. I have tears in my eyes from all of ...Awww, ladies. I have tears in my eyes from all of your posts. Ya'll are the best and sure know how to make me feel not so alone. Thank you so much for your heartfelt posts, and I truly hope the best for each and everyone of you.Lindahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06102362663976429651noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1351946439375532570.post-55205857770968304062009-01-15T09:57:00.000-06:002009-01-15T09:57:00.000-06:00LindaYou have been through so much. Hang in there....Linda<BR/>You have been through so much. Hang in there.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1351946439375532570.post-88778822340454624882009-01-15T08:44:00.000-06:002009-01-15T08:44:00.000-06:00Onemuse told me about your story - and hon, it is ...Onemuse told me about your story - and hon, it is heartbreaking. First, God is not going to punish you for trying to have a baby. You've gone miles and miles to do this and you so deserve it. Second, there might be some hope with the healthy/normal blasts. Don't give it up just yet. Third, I have to ask - are you 100% wedded to the idea of genetic children? As a mother of two children through donor eggs, I don't 'feel' as if they are not my children. They are mine, one hundred percent. If God came down right now and told me he would give me my own children through my own eggs but I would have to give up my two boys - I would say no in a heart beat. No, thank you sir. I love my boys with my heart and soul. And your children grow in your heart and soul first before anywhere else. It is obvious to me, an outsider, your children are just waiting for you to figure out a way. Hugs to you.Donnahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07729524163430608531noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1351946439375532570.post-67543098185570854732009-01-15T08:03:00.000-06:002009-01-15T08:03:00.000-06:00Just read your update--hang in there. I'm going to...Just read your update--hang in there. I'm going to link this post to my board and see if anyone has gone through something similar that might be able to offer a voice of experience.<BR/><BR/>Saying a little prayer for you!onemusehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08695986503046163578noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1351946439375532570.post-44734474784558451962009-01-15T07:58:00.000-06:002009-01-15T07:58:00.000-06:00Hey Linda-I'm sorry you didn't get more normals ba...Hey Linda-I'm sorry you didn't get more normals back from the FISH testing. But, the good news is you have some normals to work with-that's great! Hopefully 1 (or more) of those 3 normals can become your little one(s) very soon. Hugs and good luck.Jillhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11934296773153860236noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1351946439375532570.post-67736749353277548272009-01-14T22:58:00.000-06:002009-01-14T22:58:00.000-06:00Holy cow. You have had 63 embryos and only 3 are n...Holy cow. You have had 63 embryos and only 3 are normal? No wonder you haven't been getting pregnant (perhaps now RE's will be able to better explain to the infertile community why it's so hard for some people!)<BR/><BR/>I just can't believe that!<BR/><BR/>But I am so glad you have three. So, when will you do the transfer? No pressure, huh?<BR/><BR/>Will you put the "no results" back? or just the three normals?<BR/><BR/>I can't even imagine being in your shoes. I'm sorry for all that you've been through - what a nightmare.Polly Gamwichhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09338430066217324064noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1351946439375532570.post-44459858346866311952009-01-14T19:47:00.000-06:002009-01-14T19:47:00.000-06:00You really have been through the ringer. It's amaz...You really have been through the ringer. It's amazing how much you have had to go through. I know you're feeling negative about the results and getting one normal is not what you expected. I can't help but feel hopeful for you though because your little guys/gals have been through the most thorough testing out there and you have at least 3 normals - it's a possibility that one of those embryos will take. It's hard to be hopeful when you've had so much disappointment because it's such a risk. So, even if you don't feel hopeful, we all are hoping and wishing the best for you :).Luluhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00594800492440305672noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1351946439375532570.post-86162427090102089502009-01-14T19:29:00.000-06:002009-01-14T19:29:00.000-06:00I'm am so sorry for the humungo disappointment in ...I'm am so sorry for the humungo disappointment in only getting 1 normal blast out of 15. I guess you now have your answer that it was best to do FISH on your NRs. You've been though heck that's for sure. Hoping and praying like crazy that these are your take home bio children! Big Hugs!Jill M.https://www.blogger.com/profile/03527626839439456919noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1351946439375532570.post-343808672300207892009-01-14T19:20:00.000-06:002009-01-14T19:20:00.000-06:00Oh man. I'm sorry you've been through so much. And...Oh man. I'm sorry you've been through so much. And I don't think God is punishing. You haven't done anything wrong!<BR/>But what I'm reading is: you have a few normal blasts to transfer, right? And any one of those could become your baby? I will hope hope hope this is the case! Sending you big hugs.DAVshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16759565504954172751noreply@blogger.com